You truly fall in love with just 3 people in your life!

First, you fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever.

One of the most exciting, but frightening, barriers a friendship faces is when one person falls in love with their best friend. The feelings are so intense, and the fear of revealing them can be paralyzing.

Rejection is always a hard pill to swallow, but when it comes from those you care for its even harder to take. It hurts your ego. You start fighting with them everyday. And it's over. You can never be the same best friends again.

You never expected to fall in love with your best friend, but you're so glad you did.

This will teach you about the fine line between friendship and more.

Second, you fall in love with someone you believe to be perfect.

But again it fails. You realize that people could be cruel and break your heart. You realized that people could stop meaning the sweet things they said to you just yesterday. So when you go into it again, you’re going to keep in mind everything that you’ve learned.

You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as any less than you deserve.

Third, you fall in love with someone that is exactly like you.

The third time you fall in love with someone, you’re going to feel so relieved. When you get your heart broken for the second time, you can’t imagine loving someone else again or having someone else love you.

The third time you fall in love with someone, you’re going to compare it to your first and second love.

That’s okay.

That’s natural.

It’s going to feel scary at first. Falling in love is sort of like riding a bike though. You never really forget.

The third time will not be the first or the second time. The first time is an insane magical life gift that you can never reclaim. The second is a beautiful memory. But that’s okay. The third time is more real anyway. The third time can involve some amazing love.

This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.

And when you're through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, and the ones that hurt you are the ones that you needed the most.

Sometimes its just a convenient word to use. It's easier (for me) to describe what it isn't. Like all language it can be crafted, warped, bent or let go of as required.

You'd know love exists if you felt it, you wouldn't have to take my word for it. You'll know when you can sense it through your senses. After that there is no question if it's learned or not. It's got it's own agenda and does things to you that no one can teach you.

So, who are you in love with?

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I am pretty sure that - literally I am my own best friend.

I have, deep within, jokes with myself, and the jokes are on me myself.

Sometimes I laugh out loud and the world thinks I am laughing for no reason.

But the world doesn't know that I am laughing at myself.

I am enjoying the Joke On Me.

And that's why people's thoughts don't matter to me.

Their taunts sometimes hurt, sometimes they affect me badly, but not for long.

Soon I realize I am a joker, and the biggest joke on me is known by none other than me.

And when you know your bigger joke... Those small people with smaller jokes on you wouldn't matter.

So stop cribbing that you are being ridiculed. Your sensitivity is exciting them to joke more. Start enjoying yourself. You are the biggest joke on yourself...

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